being confused

muke adam tengah confused

friends or family..sometimes,it's hard to choose either one..nak jaga hati kawan..but at the same time nak turut kata family..biasa la tu..i think everybody have this kind of moment before..nak diluah mati mak..nak ditelan mati bapak..(hehe..dah xingat pepatah ni..sorry kalau salah)..it's getting harder when the person that we love take part..macam boyfriend ke..tunang..husband..fuh..ni lagi pening..to me..family is the most important person in life..then followed by the person that we love..(tapi bagi perempuan yang dah berkahwin,lain pulak)..then followed by friends..this situations always occurs when making decision..my sister have her own vision about person..she said support from family make us feel like we're exist but support from the person that we love made us wanna move forward..and support from friends made us feel like we are on the right track..(tu yang bahaya..kalau jalan yang salah pon dia akan rase betul..)setiap manusia mempunyai impian untuk memuaskan hati semua orang..kadang-kadang ia mustahil..tapi kadang-kadang ia boleh menjadi kenyataan..jadi dalam setiap situasi,kita kene bijak membuat pilihan..like my mommy once said (mesti korg mcm boring je..asyik2 mak dia..sorry guys..to me..my mommy is my idol-fuyoo..my mommy sure bangga bile dia baca ni.."mak..jgn kembang-kembang sangat..hehe")..once we was at a kenduri kahwin..kan sekarang trend buat hidang makanan secara buffet..so at the table tempat pilih2 makanan tu..my mom tengok je kat one of her friend ni..(perempuan ok..!)..kebetulan time nak ambil pinggan,ade satu pinggan ni serpih,so kawan my mom ni pon pilih pinggan yang betul2 dia pastikan xde serpih macam pinggan sebelumnye..then my mom said.."tengok aunty tu..nak pilih pinggan pon she chose the best.."..so from here i understand that,everything..i mean EVERYTHING need to be decide..!and always respect yourself..if we don't even respect ourselves..(like makcik tu, kalau dia selamba je gune or makan atas pinggan serpih tu and just couldn't careless about what will effect her after-eventhough sikit je effect nyer- maknanya dia pon tak kesah kat diri dia which means don't respect herself)..everything and every problems have it's own solution..so it's up to us to create or search for the best solution..but like i said earlier..mustahil bagi seseorang itu untuk memuaskan hati semua orang..tapi kalau keputusannya tak melanggar garis panduan yang telah ditetapkan oleh Islam(ALLAH dan Rasul-NYA) dan yang terbaik dalam banyak2 keputusan..why don't just we give it a shot..!tak kesah la kalau tak dapat sokongan secara zahir..sebab kadang-kadang dalam diam ade suara-suara sokongan yang tak dapat dizahirkan akibat dihalang.. :-)